Comparing ourselves to others, we inadvertently play their game. Instead, understanding what we want out of life helps us play our own game.

Many of us don't know that we're spending; it's unconscious spending. We need to learn to spend, and know that we're spending.

Getting clear about what matters to you helps you avoid the distraction of things that don't matter to you.

Get clear on what is in your control and what is outside your control.