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Money and the Pursuit of Happiness


change your focus to pursue happiness instead of money

❝I think everybody should get rich and famous and do everything they ever dreamed of so they can see it's not the answer.❞ -Jim Carrey

I'm catching up with my brother at his kitchen table when I get an email. I get wind that my exam results are out. For the past several years I've been studying for the Chartered Financial Analyst (CFA) certification. It's hard! It's a series of three increasingly difficult 6-hour exams that cover everything you can think of about investing, including math, economics, accounting, stocks, bonds, many different kinds of derivative investments (complex investments that derive their value from other things). It's brutal; it's estimated that only about one person out of every five who start the program end up finishing. The pass rates are very low; I have failed each level at least once.


I nervously open the email. I'm optimistic, but I'm not confident. As I read the email it says that I passed! I don't believe it; I actually fall off my chair!


For nearly the next decade I view the world through the lens of the skills I learned. One of the main tenants of personal finance is called the time value of money (TVM). This is at the core of many other ideas in finance. The idea is that money is worth more today than it will be in the future - a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush, so to speak. Interest is the component that ties together the present value of money and the future value of money.


TVM is a concept I've internalized. It's a part of me.


Years later I'm reading a book called Happy Money by Elizabeth Dunn and Michael Norton. They describe how we can use our money in a way that brings more happiness by prepaying for experiences. The idea is that by prepaying, we don't have to fork over money during the experience so we won't experience the sting of spending money.


I've heard this idea before and I both like and agree with the concept. There is a part of me though, that cringes. TVM says that we should not pay for something if we don't have to because we could be earning interest on that money.


Then, almost as if they are reading my mind, I turn the page and read that they agree with me. It's not mathematically optimal to forego interest. However, they go onto to say that maybe we shouldn't be optimizing our money to make more money. What would it look like if we used our money for happiness instead?


Indeed - what would it look like if we changed our focus toward happiness?

understand what you get for your money

MONEY IS A TOOL, NOT A GOAL


It's common to pursue money as a goal. You may know people who will do whatever they can to make at least $100,000 per year, or will retire once they hit their "magic number." These are obvious examples, of course. Sometimes it's a bit more nuanced than that. Instead of dollar targets, some people set goals related to the collection of things - a nicer house, a fancier car, or a better job title. These are indirectly treating money as a goal insofar as money is used in a way that indicates how much people have.


Upon further inspection, though, we learn that money is useless on its own and buying things won't make us happier.


Changing our perspective from using money as a goal to using money as a tool is a profound mindset change. Money can be used as a tool to help you live a life that you would be happy to look back on.

money is a tool, not a goal

MONEY DOESN'T BUY HAPPINESS


The main reason it makes to shift away from viewing money as a goal is that, as the old cliche goes, money doesn't buy happiness.


It's more nuanced than that simple sentence, of course. For starters, money does buy happiness if you are in poverty or your basic needs aren't being met. Psychologist Daniel Kahneman, author of Thinking Fast and Slow, says that "Money doesn't buy happiness, but the lack of money buys misery."


The takeaway is that you get a better happiness bang for your buck if you use your money as a tool to bring you more happiness.

money buys happiness until you are out of poverty

HAPPINESS BUYS MONEY


Some argue that you see happiness increase with more money, even after $75,000. Although the data may show that, it's not that simple. First, the increase in happiness isn't that profound. Meaning, there are better ways to use your time than collecting more money.


The more important point, though, is that correlation is not the same thing as causation. What does that mean? It means that more money may in fact be present in happier people (correlation), but that doesn't mean that more money caused more happiness (causation). It could be the opposite - happier people could make more money. After all, happier people are easier to get along with, are open to more opportunities, and may be offered more opportunities.


It may be that happiness buys money.

happiness buys money

CHANGING YOUR FOCUS TO HAPPINESS


Think of any goal. Ask yourself why you want to achieve that goal. Now, ask yourself why that is important to you.


You'll find that no matter your goal, eventually these goals are important because you want either yourself or someone you love to be happy.


What might that look like with money goals?


"I want a million dollars."


"Why?"


"I don't have to worry about paying my bills."


"Why don't you want to worry about paying bills?"


"Because being behind with bills is stressful."


"Why don't you want that stress?"


"Because I would be happier if I wasn't stressed out all the time."

all roads lead to happiness

PURPOSE WITH HAPPINESS IN MIND


Having a financial purpose means knowing what money needs to do for you. It helps you understand money's role in your life. It is well worth it to spend some time to understand what your money is for.


When you do this, it's helpful to articulate your purpose in a way that will bring you and those you love the most happiness. You want your purpose to help direct the kind of life you want to design. At the end of your life, you'll want to look back without regret and say you lived a happy life.

put happiness at the core of your purpose

Money doesn't buy happiness, but how we use it can. We get to decide what we want our money to do for us. Our default mode tends to be to pursue money, stuff, and status, yet if we look deep enough, we want those things because we want to be happy. There are easier ways to become happier.


Shifting our pursuit from the pursuit of happiness instead of money will change the way we view our lives.


You only have one life; live intentionally.


With gratitude,

derek
 

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Related Money Health® Reading
References and Influences

Ben-Shahar, Tal: Being Happy

Ben-Shahar, Tal: Happier

Ben-Shahar, Tal: Happier, No Matter What

Dunn, Elizabeth & Michael Norton: Happy Money

Haidt, Jonathan: The Happiness Hypothesis

Kahneman: Daniel: Thinking Fast and Slow

Millburn, Joshua Fields & Ryan Nicodemus: Essential

Yalom, Irvin: Staring at the Sun


Note: Above is a list of references that I intentionally looked at while writing this post. It is not meant to be a definitive list of everything that influenced by thinking and writing. It's very likely that I left something out. If you notice something that you think I left out, please let me know; I will be happy to update the list.

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About the Author

Derek Hagen, CFA, CFP, FBS, CFT-I, CIPM is a speaker, writer, and coach specializing in financial psychology, meaning and valued living, resilience, and mindfulness.

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